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Jumat, 25 Maret 2011

hey... it's been days since the last time i wrote...
well, nothin's change, just loosing 5 kgs here, hehehe..

what's to talk about today???
how about "guys at work"

have u ever had an experience when one of your male colleagues started to make a joke, but the joke was rather an insult to women (because the meaning and the language he used).

terkadang agak risi ngeliat kaya gitu. meskipun udah sevokal apapun kita komplain tapi mereka tetap aja menjurus ke arah sana, entah y, mungkin klo sama2 cewe, it's fine (dalam batasan yg normal tentunya). pi klo rekan kerja kita yg cowo dah ngomomg yg nyerempet2 rasanya pen nabok!!!

gak bermaksud jadi pribadi yg etnosentris, pi g cuman ngerasa kalo javanese guys tend to talk dirty rather than any other guys who come from different ethnic group.
I once asked to my hubz bout this problem (he is Javanese), and he can't agree more with what I said. he said that is because the javanese culture (where man is above women). 

tapi bkn berarti laki2 yang bukan jawa bisa bersikap berbeda. Banyakj g yg menyebalkan dan 'jorok' bgt omongannya, kaya gak pernah di'cuci' aja mulutnya!!!

kayaknya yang bisa kita (sebagai rekan kerja wanita) adalah berusaha sebaik mungkin untuk mereka paham bahwa 'I am not that woman whom you can talk dirty to' 

dirty talk tu seperti apa si?? cth; 'eh, kok lo ga breastfeed si Andy si?? kan dia anak lo?? (anak dalam pengertian dia teman kerja laki-laki yg kita lumayan dekat dan sering kerja bareng). that sucks rite??? 
tell me that i'm too sensitive, pi klo ada yg pake joke-an yg kaya geto over n over again, wah... tu orang kayaknya perlu belajar etika. kadang2 g mikir mgkn dia gak cukup cerdas untuk menciptakan 'joke' yg smart yg gak perlu pake embel2 seks dll. what a pity!

yg paling menyebalkan lagi, klo dia bos kita dan kita gak punya nyali untuk ngomng k org tersebut, hell with it! temuin dan bilang k orang tersebut, bahwa omongannya sangat, sangat mengganggu dan tidak sopan.

for that kind of people, a nick name I've made for them, a 'Jerk'!!

so, klo ada dari kalian yg mungkin gak sengaja nemu n baca tulisan ini, pliz.. fror the sake of a better working environment, respect your colleagues (male n female) and try to be more selective regarding your choices of word... (kurangi pembicaraan bentuk fisik apalagi menjurus ke sex).

klo kata suami g, SALING... insyallah, hasilnya pun baik.

dee@n

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